ADJUSTMENT TO LIVING IN AN ASSISTED LIVING AND NURSING HOME
Dedication
Dedicated to those navigating the challenging journey of transitioning to assisted living or nursing homes, this book is dedicated to you. Just as we faced the uncertainties of college, stepping into a new phase of life requires strength, resilience, and a supportive community.
In the stories shared within these pages, I recognize the profound adjustments you are making in your final years. It's not an easy path, and many aspects of life are changing. From diminished mobility to the emotional toll of leaving cherished homes, you are navigating challenges with courage.
As a home health nurse, I've witnessed the struggles and triumphs of individuals like Agnes, who bravely shared her experiences. This book aims to offer guidance and support to families and individuals facing the difficult decision of assisted living or nursing home care.
To the families grappling with guilt and the individuals feeling a sense of abandonment, remember that you are making the best choice for your loved ones. This dedication serves as a reminder to focus on the love, care, and connection you provide, rather than dwelling on temporary feelings of guilt.
May the practical tips shared here assist you in ensuring the best possible care for your loved ones. From daily visits to personalized touches in their living spaces, your involvement makes a significant difference.
In the face of grief and the stages that accompany it, be kind and supportive to yourself and your loved ones. Life is a journey, and adjusting to change takes time. The experiences shared here are meant to guide you through this transition, providing insights, advice, and a reminder that you are not alone.
Wishing you strength, love, and the ability to find acceptance in the midst of life's challenges.
Best regards,
Kami Alaniz, RN, Founder of Just Brooke, LLC
Author, Public Speaker, CPNLP, Holistic Dream Life Transformation Coach
Quotes
“Acceptance is similar to a butterfly emerging from its cocoon. Now it's okay to see the grass greener and the sky bluer than you have ever seen it. It's not just okay to be this new version of you but it is great. “-Kami Alaniz
“Do Not Let Anything Someone Has Said Or Done Stand In Your Way. Reset, Rediscover Yourself, and Live Your Dream Life.”-Kami Alaniz
“I did it and you can do it. All we have to do is get out of our own heads. Remove those blocks. When we remove the blocks, reset, rediscover ourselves and start living our dream lives, that's when we can feel the Holy Spirit working in our lives easier. And that's when we tap into infinite love, happiness, and our dream lives. Because it doesn't come from a human with human blocks. It comes from the abundance of God. That is my gift. To help you to remove the blocks, reset, rediscover yourself, and start living your dream life.”-Kami Alaniz
“You are never too young or too old to live your dream life”-Kami Alaniz
You may, also, find value in some other publications Kami has authored available in her resource library. Exclusively available on her website: www.justbrooke.net.
Books:
1. Spiritual World-training for Priests
2. HOW MEDICARE WORKS-everything insurance. Traditional Medicare, Medicare Advantage Plans, Supplements, PPOs/HMO, Dental, Vision, Hearing, Medicaid, Levels Of Care-Home Health, SNF, custodial care, LTAC, Acute Hospital, Rehab
3. Adjustment To Living In Assisted Living and Nursing Home
4. Jesus Still Working In Your Life Even When Mind Is Closed
5. Loss Of A Loved One
6. Welcoming Travelers & Newcomers To Our Church
7. "My LifeTime Series To Dream Life"
8. FORGIVEN-Set Yourself Free To Love Life Passionately Again. How to Forgive Ourselves and Others.
9. How To Empower Yourself And Live Your Dream Life After Date Rape.
10. Become The Best Lover
Other valuable information Kami has created available in her resource library. Exclusively available on her website: www.justbrooke.net.
You may also find value in the following video series, I created:
SERIES:
Medical Series (see www.justbrooke.net for full list of self-help videos):
Part 1 TIMELINE.
Part 2 CHANGE IN HEALTH ADJUSTMENT.
Part 3 DEALING WITH MEDICAL CONDITIONS.
Part 4 LOSS OF A INDEPENDENCE,
Part 5 MEDICATION AND MEDICAL TREATMENT COMPLIANCE.
Part 6 OVERWHELMED AND BURNED-OUT CAREGIVERS
Part 7 DEATH & DYING- includes information about POAs, possible ways to get extra assistance, important information to get and have in order.
Part 8 HOW MEDICARE WORKS-everything insurance. Traditional Medicare, Medicare
Advantage Plans, Supplements, PPOs/HMOs, Dental, Vision, Hearing, Medicaid, Levels Of
Care-Home Health, SNF, custodial care, LTAC, Acute Hospital, Rehab
Reset Series (partial list see www.justbrooke.net for full list):
Part 1 TIMELINE
Part 2 RESET INTRODUCTION (SELF DIRECTED HAPPY LIFE) part 2 of 31 RESET SERIES
Part 3 BUILD YOU BUBBLE part 3 of 31 RESET SERIES
Part 4 YOU ARE NOT AN OXYGEN CYLINDER part 4 of 31 RESET SERIES
Part 5 RELATIONSHIPS FRIENDS part 5 of 31 RESET SERIES
Rediscover Yourself Series (partial list see www.justbrooke.net for full list):
Part 1 TIMELINE
Part 2 REDISCOVER YOURSELF part 2 of 29 REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES
Part 3 LIVING LIFE WITH INTENTION part 3 of 29 REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES
Part 4 STOP LIVING IN FEAR part 4 of 29 REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES
Part 5 RELATIONSHIPS part 5 of 29 REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES
Dream Life Series (partial list see www.justbrooke.net for full list):
Part 1 TIMELINE
Part 2 RECREATING YOURSELF part 2 OF 7 DREAM LIFE SERIES
Part 3 CONNECT WITH YOUR YOUNGER SELF part 3 of 7 DREAM LIFE SERIES
Part 4 CONNECT WITH YOUR DREAM SELF part 4 of 7 DREAM LIFE SERIES
Part 5 BECOME YOUR DREAM SELF part 5 of 7 DREAM LIFE SERIES
People Annoying You Series (partial list see www.justbrooke.net for full list):
Part 1 TIMELINE
Part 2 WHY CAN'T PEOPLE JUST MAKE ME HAPPY BY DOING WHAT I SAY part 2 of 9 PEOPLE
ANNOYING YOU BUNDLE SERIES
Part 3 STOP THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OTHERS HAVE ON YOU part 3 of 9 PEOPLE
ANNOYING YOU SERIES
Part 4 OVERCOMING FEELINGS OF ABANDOMENT part 4 OF 9 PEOPLE ANNOYING YOU SERIES
Part 5 WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FEEL EMPTY part 5 of 9 PEOPLE ANNOYING YOU SERIES
Commitment Series (see www.justbrooke.net for full list of self-help videos):
Part 1 TIMELINE
Part 2 IT REALLY CAN BE EASY part 2 of 3 COMMITMENT SERIES
Part 3 IS THIS THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME part 3 of 3 COMMITMENT SERIES
BUNDLES-30 day opportunity to transformation:
Transformation Bundles-receive an inspirational email and small tasks to complete daily. Bundles are great for convenience. You will automatically receive an email a day for the duration of the series. Your transformation is just a couple of clicks away.
Bundle choice include and are available exclusively at www.justbrooke.net
RESET (SELF DIRECTED HAPPY LIFE) BUNDLE SERIES
REDISCOVER YOURSELF BUNDLE SERIES
DREAM LIFE SERIES TRANSFORMATION BUNDLE
MEDICAL BUNDLE SERIES
ANNOYING YOU BUNDLE SERIES
COMMITMENT BUNDLE SERIES
Transformation Bundles-includes worksheets Kami has created to assist you on your journey and 2 one-on-one appointments, an inspirational email and small tasks to complete daily. Bundles are great for convenience. You will automatically receive an email a day for the duration of the series. Your transformation is just a couple of clicks away.
Bundle choice include and are available exclusively at www.justbrooke.net
RESET (SELF DIRECTED HAPPY LIFE) 30 day BUNDLE RESET SERIES INCLUDES KAMI'S EXCULSIVE WORKSHEETS & (2) 1:1 APPOINTMENTS
REDISCOVER YOURSELF part 1 of 29 BUNDLE REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES with Kami's exclusive worksheets and 2 one on one appointments
DREAM LIFE SERIES TRANSFORMATION BUNDLE with Kami's exclusive worksheets and 2 one on one appointments
TRANSFORMATION COURSES-60-day opportunity to transformation:
Includes:
RESET (SELF DIRECTED HAPPY LIFE) 30 day BUNDLE RESET SERIES AND
REDISCOVER YOURSELF part 1 of 29 BUNDLE REDISCOVER YOURSELF SERIES INCLUDES
KAMI'S EXCULSIVE WORKSHEETS and a total of (5) 1:1 APPOINTMENTS
Transformation Courses choice include and are available exclusively at www.justbrooke.net:
Dream Life Transformation NLP Secrets Blueprint Course
Living Life Fully With Medical Conditions Transformation NLP Secrets Blueprint Course
Girl Time Girl Talk Transformation NLP Secrets Blueprint Course
Just For Guys Transformation NLP Secrets Blueprint Course
Be Happy Medical Staff and First Responders Transformation NLP Secrets Blueprint Course
ONE-ON-ONE APPOINTMENTS:
And of course, for those who would like a 1:1 appointment. You can schedule on 1:1 appointment at www.justbrooke.net.